http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obsessive_love
Hodgkinson recommends realizing that one who loves obsessively has not fallen in love with a real person, but rather an illusion.
It is estimated that up to 90% of obsessive love is motivated by projection. The obsessed is not falling in love with their target because of any salient properties of the target, but for what that target represents to the obsessed.
In some rare cases, the situation is different. It is true that usually the obsessed is not in love with the person per se but rather with his idea, his mental image of the person, which are two completely different realities usually...
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FUCK REALITY.
I WOULD NEVER LIVE IN MY DREAMS. THEY'RE ALL =X
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